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{June 15, 2009}   Welcome To The Family

My family is amazing. For the most part, we all get along, we all have a great time together and I appreciate their love and support. In my dating life, my family has met quite a few of the men I’ve been with. They’re honest, yet supportive – and of course, love to tease me asking “WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?” after it’s over. Love you guys for that!

So, with 6′4″ new guy (6′4″ for short), we’ve been together two weeks. And I just found out that my family has scheduled a get together on the 28th. Now, 6′4″ usually (ha – after two weeks, we already have a usually?) has his daughter on Saturdays, and maybe Friday nights. But the 28th is a Sunday. I’ve spent the last 3 Sundays with him, so in theory, he’d be available to attend the family dinner. And in theory, if he wants to see me, he’d have to go to the family dinner. Hmm.

Because my family is so welcoming, I would feel comfortable letting them meet him, but is HE ready for that? I tend not to waste any time in rthe beginning of elationships and I think it’s because I’m a pretty good judge of whether I could be a with a guy when I first meet him. (Of course ending a relationships take a tad bit longer for me.) And after the feeling that I could be with a guy, I seem to just let nature take its course and go from there. 6′4″ has already mentioned marriage and kids – and we even talked about him meeting my dad which is a big deal since my dad has only met one person I’ve dated. So is it THAT big of a deal for him to meet my family?

I’ll ask him next weekend, but it could be time for him to meet my peeps. Yowza!



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